Author Dr. James. A McBean. D.Th., MCC
Copyright © 1998 Library of Congress Washington.D.C.20559
Publisher: Revival Tract Ministries Inc
The purpose of this article: Speaking to men-unborn! I had been writing for ages, and have no special person in mind!
INTRODUCTION.
You walk into a church that has one hundred people in it, some of the time only ten married. The other ninety stays there and sometime dried out on the shelves. This is a visual bad testimony for the new breed of Christians women who wanting to serve the lord. Can’t the lord provide husbands for these women? “Am I going to stay here and turn an old maid and dried out on the shelves like these?” The lord does not hand pick a Christians mate for them. That is something you and I will have to do on our own.
GOD WILLS IS FOR YOU TO HAVE ALL BLESSING AND A FULFILLED LIFE.
3 John 1:2 (KJV) Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth.
1 Tim. 5:14 (KJV) I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully.
ONLY FEW WOMEN CAN COUNCIL WOMEN.
“Sirach 42:13. For just as moths comes from garments, so harm to women comes from women” The New American Bible. Saint Joseph Edition. Page 812.
Women in many cases cannot instruct women in a woman and man relationship. When a woman is having a spousal problem and goes to another let down woman for consultations, there is no way she can get anything to help her with her trouble. Bias-ness always step in and the woman seeking the information is sent off with something that make her feel good but did not give her a penny worth of help. Only a man can instruct a woman, only another man knows what a another man is thinking. Women do not know, they boasted that they know, but they do not. They do not have a clue what's going on in a man’s mind. Most of the time the woman giving the council only poison the other woman’s mind, and mess up her emotions, and Fill her with wrong concepts.
Exodus 1:17-21 (KJV) However, the midwives feared God, and did not as the king of Egypt commanded them, but saved the men children alive. [18] And the king of Egypt called for the midwives, and said unto them, Why have ye done this thing, and have saved the men children alive? [19] And the midwives said unto Pharaoh, Because the Hebrew women are not as the Egyptian women; for they are lively, and are delivered ere the midwives come in unto them. [20] Therefore God dealt well with the midwives: and the people multiplied, and waxed very mighty. [21] And it came to pass, because the midwives feared God, that he made them houses.
Many Christian women think it is unsanctified to seek a man, or to give signals to a man. Flirting is seen as a lack of faith. God gave the promise land to the children of Israel, but the children of Israel have to go in and drive out the giants that were living in that land. God gave the children of Israel the manner from heaven but the children of Israel have to go out and collect it daily. God gave the children of Israel the quails, but the children of Israel have to catch them, kill them, and prepare it for eating. God has husbanded of all single Christian’s women, but the women will have to do their own flirting and courtship, God is not going to do it for any of us. Some of the time, you have to go out and win the man to Christ, get him baptized, then win him for a husband. You will have to bring in ten to get one, because as you bring in one, another sister take him away.
I AM MARRIED TO JESUS”
I took my favorite sister in law to a church dinner. Across from the table from us was a Spanish man who could not take his eyes off her. I told the man in his language that the woman is my sister in law. I leave the table for about one hour, to give him the chance to chat with her. I came back just in time to hear him pop the question. My sister in law told him that she is married to Jesus. The man's countenance fell and he looks very disappointed. She blew it.
When a woman told a man that she is married to Jesus, do you know what is going through that man’s mind? How he process that statement. The man thinks the woman is saying that she do not interested in a relationship or a marriage, she is contended with her religious life and do not want a man. “Buzz off” That is what men think. Do not say things like that to people, because Jesus does not have a wife. The church is going to be the bride of Christ after the rapture of the church, but not now.
“FAITH IS NOT GOOD LUCK”
What some Christians call faith is just good luck, if there is such a thing. Faith is not sitting down and waiting for things to happen. It is not good intentions or long waiting. Faith is based on a principle.
“COUNTING THE COST”
Luke 14:28-32 (KJV) For which of you, intending to build a tower, smiteth not down first, and counted the cost, whether he have sufficient to finish it? [29] Lest haply, after he hath laid the foundation, and is not able to finish it, all that behold it begin to mock him, [30] Saying, This man began to build, and was not able to finish. [31] Or what king, going to make war against another king, sitteth not down first, and consulteth whether he be able with ten thousand to meet him that cometh against him with twenty thousand? [32] Or else, while the other is yet a great way off, he sendeth an ambassage, and desireth conditions of peace.
It is not a lack of faith to lay the foundation's work, to count the cost, and to set up yourself so as to be able to attract a man.
Some men are not going to make the first move, because they are afraid they might get swat like a fly. Most en is afraid of picking up a sexual harassment charge, so the women have to make the first move, if they want things to happen.
THIS IS IT
The Bible says that men look on the outward appearances, The first two test a woman get when she meets a man who interested in her are the “look test and the smell test". The look test has to do with her mouth and rotten teeth. The look test also has to do with her rear end. Some men want to see some meat back there. She must have something good going on back there. No plastic thing but for real.
The smell test has to do with how she carries herself. After she passes these two tests, only she, her family, and friends can drive away the man now.
MEN LOOK ON THE OUTSIDE APPEARANCES.
1 Samuel 16:7 (KJV) : -- for the Lord seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart.
If the outside APPEARANCES are not good, the woman will not get the chance to prove to the man what she got on the inside of her. Looks are important, but looks alone will not land this fish.
HAVING A NEED FOR A MAN.
Even before you begin to seek a man, you must first have a need for a man that matches his need for a woman. Most men in my opinion greatest need for a woman are companionship including sex. If you the woman only have a money and an emotional need for a man, do not bother seeking. You have to have a lot of fire in your pants, to keep a man in there.
SUCCESS IS NOT AN ACCIDENT.
Success does not come from an accident, it came by calculating actions. Just when I was saved, I heard all kinds of argument on how to go about finding a spouse. None of which makes any sense. The countless number of Christians makes wrong choice each year in these areas of their lives. One of the greatest reasons why they make so many mistakes can be summarized in one sentence. “Knowing the will of God” Every Christian I came across in those early days. As soon as the subject of marriage comes, up. The first sentence that they shouted out “You know the will of God for your life?
WHAT IS THE WILL OF GOD?
The will of God for every believer is that we all come of age spiritually. Is that we all conform to the image of Jesus Christ. The will of God for his people is that we prosper, and being in good health. The will of God for young women in the Church is they married and bear children.
1 Timothy 5:14-AV I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully.
The will of God is that you seek a spouse. The underline, the world seeks. However, we should come of spiritual age first before we started to seek. We should purge our soul of all covetous actions, rebelliousness, spites, because these will prevent us from seeing the good qualities in people, and cause us to make bad choices and get stuck up with an immature believer, and unsaved Christians.
HOW CAN A WOMAN KNOW IF IT IS THE WILL OF GOD FOR HER TO MARRY?
Are you lonely? Do you feel like you want to have sex? Would you like to have children? Having a family of your own? Do you want a man to talk to when you go home in the night? If the answer is yes, then it is the will of God for you. God is a family person. God is a child lover. God is a God of sex. Even the mosquitoes and flies do their thing when nature calls. And the female mosquitoes make a lot of noise when she wants to do her thing. If God gives you the gifts, to have the need for a man, then he wants you to have a family of your own.
GOD DO NOT DO CHRISTIANS COURTSHIP FOR THEM.
God say “Psalms 32:9-AV Be ye not as the horse, [or] as the mule, [which] have no understanding: whose mouth must be held in with bit and bridle-.
NEVER MARRY OUR OF YOUR RANK AND CALLING.
2 Cor. 6:14 (KJV) Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion hath light with darkness?
Amos 3:3 (KJV) Can two walk together, except they be agreed?
Watch this. Did you know that two genuinely born again Christians could be unequally yoked? You cannot marry someone that has the pastoral gift to someone that is called to be a missionary and have it work, the pastor always wanting to stay when the missionary wanting to go. They might agree on doctrines and agree that they love each other. But will never agree when to move on or when to stay. You have to first find out from the Lord what your calling area, and seek a mate with the same calling. Calling = I mean ministry. Conflicting calling and conflicting personality is the downfall of many a Christians marriage.
In love does not necessarily mean you are the one for me and me and you can get along. That is why you have to learn the scriptures, learn to follow the leading of the Holy Spirit and learn about people. Not because you see a person jumping and crying out in the church, sometime that is most miserable person in the whole church.
1 Cor. 12:28 (KJV) And God hath set some in the church, first apostles, secondarily prophets, thirdly teachers, after that miracles, then gifts of healings, helps, governments, diversities of tongues.
Ephes. 4:11 (KJV) And he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers;
KEEPING THE MAN FROM LEAVING.
The outside appearances are what bring the man in, but the outside appearances cannot keep the man. This is where women made their biggest mistakes. When their husbands are not happy they would go out and get a $400 make up. Then go home looking very pretty but with the same problems.
THIS IS WHAT THE BIBLE SAID.
Titus 2:3-5 (KJV) The aged women likewise, that they be in behavior as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things;
[4] That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, [5] To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed. ) (Teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discrete, chaste, good housekeeper, and be obedient to their husbands.
SOBER MINDED.
1 Tim. 3:11 (KJV) Even so must their wives be grave, not slanderers, sober, faithful in all things.
5. Marked by seriousness, gravity, or solemnity of conduct or character.
1 Peter 3:1-7 (KJV) Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; [2] While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear. [3] Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; [4] But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. [5] For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands: [6] Even as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.
IF THE HUSBAND IS PUSHED INTO MISTREATING HIS WIFE HIS PRAYERS WILL BE HINDERED.
In other word, nothing you both try to do will come to any success.
[7] Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
HOW THE BIBLE SAID THE MARRIAGE MUST GO.
1 Cor. 7:1-5 (KJV) Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.
[2] Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
[3] Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
[4] The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.
[5] Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
CHRISTIANS RUN AWAY FROM SEX LIKE A RAT RUNNING FROM A SNAKE.
Christians run away from sex and leave it give to ungodly people. When some Christian men saw a vagina by accident, they went home and fasting and pray to death.
Sexuality is a natural part of human existence, and should not be isolated and handles in the way we do, simple because of what it is; in fact all of us are here because of sex. If somebody did not get the sexual urges and act upon it, earth would not have replenished it self, so often as it did after two world wars and so many battles, death and destructions, also many out brakes of diseases, famines, and earthquakes.
This is one of the doctrines that is most mist understand in the Bible, and there are very few doctrines like the doctrine of sex, in fact it is the only teaching that has never been fully expound on by the Church, you hear very little about sex from the pulpit, and whenever you hear any thing it is always in the negative, with some blood and hell fire attach to it, people talk about sex in a hush, hush kind of way, it is look down upon as the great sin, people in the church think that they are saved because they have not indulged in sexual practice.
It is the only doctrine that is left up to the ungodly people to teach. Everybody who has the gift or the need for sex participates in the act some way or another, but no body is willing to say yes we do. Because of the mentalities that have surrounded sex, many people do not know the right and wrong about sex, even among some people who are married; they still feel guilty when they participate in sexual activity. But a careful and intelligent study of the Bible is the only way to determine the right wrong about sex.
God himself has invented sex, for the continuing of the human race. God told Adam and Eve to multiply and replenish the Earth, back then the only way they know how to continue the human race was by the good old fashion sex.
Genesis 1:26-AV And God said, Let us make man
HAVING A PLAN BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR MATE HOW TO DEAL WITH GRIEVANCE.
If you both do not have a plan how to deal with hear says, GRIEVANCE and ill feelings, you will never have a successful or even a working relationship. People have a way to covet other person's marital happiness and will do everything to break you up. They will dig under and dig over until they separate a man and his wife. Sisters in laws and sometime cousin are a great danger to marriage. If you do not have a plan between you and your spouses how you both are going to deal with hearsay, your love will turn to hate. The final chapter of this article can only be written by time and by you my reader,
Yeshua Elohim (Jesus) Calling To Help You Today
Acts 4:12 (KJV)Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. Romans 5:7 (KJV) For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. Romans 5:8 (KJV) But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:9 (KJV) Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him. Romans 5:10 (KJV) For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life. Romans 5:11 (KJV) And not only so, but we also joy in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom we have now received the atonement.
Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him, while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
Do you repent of your sins before God and Man, and do you embraces Jesus as your savior? If the answer is yes! By the power invested in me, by the Church, and by the Holy Ghost. I pronounce you forgiven of your sins. Acts 2:21 And it shall come to pass, that whosoever shall call on the name of the Lord shall be saved. Romans 10:13 For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
The Bearer's Of The "Mind Sword."
A bird eye view is given, a voice is heard, a man is enlightened, a soul is saved.
My version of Christianity!
My version of Christianity is from Ethiopia, not the Christianity of the Americas. Ethiopian Orthodox. The Christianity that Philip the Evangelist brought to the Ethiopian eunuch, and which the eunuch brought back to Ethiopia, and they practice for thousands of years.
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