How Husbands Know That Their Wives Are Having An Affair
By Dr. James. A McBean. D.Th., MCC
Copyright © 2008 Library of Congress
Washington.D.C.20559
H ow do husbands know that their wives are having an affair? What mistakes did she make that give him the indication of what was happening? In addition, what is the reasons that driver her into that behavior? Many women died yearly, some of them their bodies have not been found. Before we can answer all these questions, we must first answer the question of what broken up marriage?
Something bad happen before the affair started. In addition, to fix the affair, we must first go back to the original causes. One of the first problem are money problem, power struggle, interferences of families and friends, hear says, molestation from childhood which made the person frigid, gullibility, baggage’s brought over from previous relationship, and bad depts., brought over into the relationship, and bad police record which render the person incapable of getting a job. All these and much more. These problems could have fixed even before the couple move in together. Had they sit down and talk about these things before, and have a game plan how to deal with it, this could save a lot of time and prevent a lot of trouble.
All these things lay the groundwork for a relationship to go bad and an affair to start.
Amos 3:3 Can two walk together, except they be agreed?
Women by nature are very over confidence and secure, when they are dealing with men. They think the men cannot know because they are not that smart. Therefore, by these perceptions they leave a long trail of evidence unknowing to them, but can be easily picked up even by a husband who is in denial. Men know what their wives are up to, but in most case feeling too defeated to say anything about it. It is best to play like they naive.
The Women First Mistakes
Sirach 42:13 "For just as moths come from garments, so harm to women comes from women." Page 812. The New American Bible. Saint Joseph Edition. Catholic Book Publishing Company.
The first time a man really knows for sure what the wife is up to is by the wife best friends. Wife best friend always tell on them. The wife best friend is always the one to let the husband know that hog is digging up his garden. The men that she been seeing sometime make the husband suspected by their actions.
How Men Know What The Wives Are Doing.
Sometime the condom that was flushed in the toilet floated up back after a while, the husband saw it but say nothing, fearing if he say anything the woman will get wise up, and since he hope to catch them in the act so he can kill them both, it is best to behave naive. A new brand of cigarettes turns up in the homes, and the butt left in the tray. When the woman has a sore vagina, or bruises between the legs, is another sign.
The company that a woman keeps sometime gives the man the indication of what going on. When the woman swears by a kind of sex that she is not getting at home, also give the husband an indication.
One woman is more than enough for ten men. In some cases, one prostitute is taking care of a whole street of men with ease. Two are three times per week is quite enough for most working couple, when a husband fall below that he can be sure something is going on. When the wife is never in the mood, rationing the husband, and fake sickness, but at the same time well enough to go to work, but only sick the night she is home. Where does she get her need meet?
There are certain thing that people never denies themselves of especially when it is available and legal. People do not deny themselves of food, sleep, and sex, when it is available and legal. If they are not getting it at home they are getting it someplace, but people never denies themselves of these. Love, hate, revenge, sex, and covetousness are some of the strongest emotions. People will be ready to show how righteous they are but all indulges in these things. People do not have food in the refrigerator and remain hungry. If the person is not doing it at home, than where is he or she doing it?
Quarrelsome Before Bedtimes.
Quarrelsome when bed times drawing near is another signs that sometimes is not right.
The Men That Romance Married Women
The men who romance married women are a special breed of men who do not want responsibility. Immediately as the husband leave such a men always leave the women also, because they do not want responsibility. These know how to turn a woman inside out. They know what women want and willing to invest the time. They are not busy like a husband with responsibility.
They will remember her birthday, valentine’s day, and brought her flowers at the job, something that a working husband might not have the time to do, are the burden of responsibilities cause the husband to forget.
The Plan Of God For Marriage
God gave us all two kidneys, one head, one heart two feet two hands. One heart is capable of doing the work; two kidneys do a better job. If one eye is, knock out the other one can take over. You do not need any more that one tongue, because it never fell out or failed to work. God gave Adam one wife, and gave Eve one husband. Because God know that it could work, the one man was capable, and the one woman was capable of taking care of each other need. When this is not happening, the door way is open for a second relationship to be started.
Mat 19:4 And he answered and said, Have ye not read, that he who made them from the beginning made them male and female, Mat 19:5 and said, For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh? Mat 19:6 So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
VERSES OF SPECIAL INTREST
1Co 7:1 Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. 1Co 7:2 But, because of fornications, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. 1Co 7:3 Let the husband render unto the wife her due: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. 1Co 7:4 The wife hath not power over her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power over his own body, but the wife. 1Co 7:5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be by consent for a season, that ye may give yourselves unto prayer, and may be together again, that Satan tempt you not because of your incontinency.
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1Co 7:1 Now, as to the things in your letter to me: It is good for a man to have nothing to do with a woman. 1Co 7:2 But because of the desires of the flesh, let every man have his wife, and every woman her husband. 1Co 7:3 Let the husband give to the wife what is right; and let the wife do the same to the husband. 1Co 7:4 The wife has not power over her body, but the husband; and in the same way the husband has not power over his body, but the wife. 1Co 7:5 Do not keep back from one another what is right, but only for a short time, and by agreement, so that you may give yourselves to prayer, and come together again; so that Satan may not get the better of you through your loss of self-control.
1Pe 3:1 In like manner, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, even if any obey not the word, they may without the word be gained by the behavior of their wives; 1Pe 3:2 beholding your chaste behavior coupled with fear. 1Pe 3:3 Whose adorning let it not be the outward adorning of braiding the hair, and of wearing jewels of gold, or of putting on apparel; 1Pe 3:4 but let it be the hidden man of the heart, in the incorruptible apparel of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. 1Pe 3:5 For after this manner aforetime the holy women also, who hoped in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection to their own husbands: 1Pe 3:6 as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose children ye now are, if ye do well, and are not put in fear by any terror.
God's Command To Husbands
1Pe 3:7 Ye husbands, in like manner, dwell with your wives according to knowledge, giving honor unto the woman, as unto the weaker vessel, as being also joint-heirs of the grace of life; to the end that your prayers be not hindered. 1Pe 3:8 Finally, be ye all likeminded, compassionate, loving as brethren, tenderhearted, humble minded: 1Pe 3:9 not rendering evil for evil, or reviling for reviling; but contrariwise blessing; for hereunto were ye called, that ye should inherit a blessing.
Yeshua Elohim (Jesus) Calling To Help You Today
Acts 4:12 (KJV)Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. Romans 5:7 (KJV) For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. Romans 5:8 (KJV) But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:9 (KJV) Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him. Romans 5:10 (KJV) For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life. Romans 5:11 (KJV) And not only so, but we also joy in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom we have now received the atonement.
Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him, while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
Do you repent of your sins before God and Man, and do you embraces Jesus as your savior? If the answer is yes! By the power invested in me, by the Church, and by the Holy Ghost. I pronounce you forgiven of your sins. Acts 2:21 And it shall come to pass, that whosoever shall call on the name of the Lord shall be saved. Romans 10:13 For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
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