Author Dr. James. A McBean. D.Th., MCC

Copyright © 2010 Library of Congress Washington.D.C.20559

Publisher: Revival Tract Ministries Inc

Take You Where Eagles Dare To Soar!

T he secret to get the man you want is this: Go after the men that love you the way you are. A lady walked into my office, she complains that if she could just lose fifteen more pounds, things would be ok. All the little meat that supposes to be on her anatomy, to make it good, and worth looking at she is trying to get rid of it. Women put themselves through all that pain and sorrows because they do not know what men want from women. In this article we want to show you how to get that man. You have to be willing to change. You have to be willing to learn new concepts, and you have to be willing to put these new concepts into actions.

There Are Equal Amount Of Men For Fat Women:

Fat women have a better chance of landing a man than a pretty skinny woman. Pretty skinny women, depending upon their looks, and have no inner qualities, they are cocky like a cockroach that crawls right out of the pit of hell. No other woman in town has a pussy; she is the only one that has it, God’s gift to men. She does not know how to boil an egg, or set a table. Walking for two miles with a phone at her head, full of herself. Wearing six panties, and a bra full of newspapers. A fat woman has no such things to boast about, and because of that, she stands a better chance of landing a man. The skimpy woman has nothing going for her, more that, that cellular phone she is walking with for two miles at her ears, and nothing more going for them, but, the braided hair that she is wearing. Take the phone and the fake hair away; she has nothing left.

Choosing A Man You Rate And Willing To Work With:

You do not want a relationship that is rigged with tug of war, and that is why you need to choose a man you rate, and willing to work with.

Getting Your Blueprint In Order:

In ancient warfare as well a modern warfare: To come out on top you must do your planning well. I pushed my hand under a rock in the river, trying to catch a crayfish, and ended up with a fat ugly looking frog in my hand. You do not want to catch a frog for a man, an asshole, or an idiot. In addition, you do not want to catch child molesters, if you have children from a previous relationship. You also need to understand that a lot of men having an emotional problem will come to women, hoping for the woman to fix them.

Be Aware Of Self Hate:

Be careful of self hate, hating your body, trashing yourself, and letting yourself run down. A lot of fat women fall into this death trap, and turn off the men that love them. Men scared to admire a woman that has a low self esteem, because if the woman is looking down upon herself, while he is praising her for her looks, he looks like a fool, also he runs the risk of the woman seeing his applauded as a sarcasm.

Maintaining A Peace And Tranquility Upon Your Life:

It is very important to maintain a peaceful lifestyle: Clean home, clean car, and a clean mouth. It is not good to have a foul mouth, where all kinds of foulness keeps pouring out of. Good people always try to avoid restless people, because they scared that these will rob them of their peace.

Be Aware Of Pussy Watch Women Neighbors:

Be aware of neighbors who keep coming over every time they saw a man visit your home. Here comes your first line of troubles. “What is your name Sr?

Men Cannot Read Your Mind

We have heard the term: “Actions speak louder than words.” Men cannot read a woman’s mind. Men do not know what a woman wants. Men can only read a woman’s actions, and if her actions are giving men the wrong message, the woman will get the wrong reaction from men always. If you are planning to catch fish, you have to use the correct bait. Actions means a lot: If you want to pull a man in, you have to use pulling in actions, if you want a man to stay with you, you have to use actions that cause him to want to stay. Having a good body, and a bad attitude, only cancel out itself. You cannot act as if you are the only woman in the village and get men. Just look around you, you will see women of all descriptions. This is why prostitutes win. The other secret is to: "Understanding the secret power of Body language." Men are reading your body language, more than how they are listening to your words.

"body language Consisting of body posture, gestures, eye movements and facial expressions, the body language is the most important form of nonverbal communication. The way someone walks, talks or even shakes hands can reveal a lot about the person without him or her wanting it. Body language can even elicit secrets or be an indicator for aggression, pleasure, amusement and many more."

"On the one hand John Borg confirms that 93% of our communication is made up by body language and paralinguistic cues, only 7% are words themselves. On the other, Albert Mehrabia says that this is an incorrect interpretation of the statistic."However, other findings show, that around 60 to 70% of all meaning is deduced from non-verbal behavior. Secrets of Body Language."(History Channel)

You Must Never Be Ashamed Of Your Body.

Lesson number one. A fat woman wanting to get a man must never be ashamed of her body. Never let the ways you think you look cause you to have low self-images of yourself.

She must know how to dress; fat women do not look fat in big clothing. The dress goes better for fat woman, torn pants.

The second group of lesson. The fat woman must try to get a man that is obsessed with the fat. Do not slim down to get a man that love skinny woman, or the looks orientated men. It is going to come back to bite you. When you get fat again due to childbirth, he runs away and leaves you. It is important to win a man that like you the way you are, so you will not have to make any changes to your personality or life. Because, changes take time and it hurt. Getting slim after you get fat take a lot of work. You want a man who does not mind it. If you have hair on your hands and feet, you should not shave it. Go after the men that love you the way you are.

All the men there is can be classified into about six different groups. There is the Mamas man, the looks orientated man, the man for hire or gold digger, the sex orientated man, and the family oriented man. Out of all these groups of men the only group that a fat woman would not do well in is the looks orientated group of man. And, this depends on what country the woman is living in. Because some country, the men want women with big bottom, big hip and small waist. In USA people are going by what they saw on the TV. But the TV is not real life. Those social skinny women pay a great price for that skinniness. Peoples' bodies need a certain amount of fat. Vital energy is stored in fat. Big bones woman should never try to get skinny, because she will not be able to cut down her skeleton. Some abnormal fat is the cause of thyroid problem. What a fat woman needs to work on is her belly flop.

To remove belly flop is easy today. However, it is important to know that the group of men that goes after fat woman, is not necessarily looking on her fatness, these men are more concern with her vagina, and not her belly flap. Her attitudes, availability, sense ability and sex ability is what these are concerned with and not her fat

Place To Find Men Who Want Fat Women.

Jamaican men love fat women. Many African men love fat women. And most black men on a whole seem to love fat women.

The Internet is a good source help, message board, clubs, and dating house is available on the web. All you have to do is fill out a profile, and put it up with your picture. That is where everybody is going in the future. The man does not need to spend ten years to get to know you, when he can spend ten minutes read your profile and know what you are looking for in a man.

If you meet somebody on the internet, the first day you are going to meet them in reality, you will need to meet them in a public places, and if possible with friends. And you need to make them know that, that is how it is going to go. Until you get comfortable with them

Getting The Sex Problem Fix

Sex is a natural part of our human biology, it was made by God, for pleasure, and procreation. We should not use it as a sign for our spirituality, or spiritual maturity. The animal kingdom must have laughed at humanity. To find a man that does not want sex is hard. If a woman gives a man the impression that she has a sex problem, and there is something wrong with men that wants sex, her chance of getting and keeping a man is nil. A woman fat or skinny that does not have the need for sex and intimacy is a bad sign of childhood abuses, or hormone deficiency. Men are cynical of women that have something against sex. However, if she has no hormone, and do not feel for sex, she will have to have money so as to catch a man for hire. Fat woman must be able to outdo the skinny women in order to hold on to what she gets.

Learning To Give Good Signals.