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WHAT EVERY YOUNG GIRL NEED TO KNOW
ABOUT MEN BEFORE VENTURING
OUT FROM HOME.
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I f you are going to mess with snakes, you should at least do a study on them to know which one are poisonous. That man is not your papa, he is there because he wants something from you, and you allow him to be there because you want something from him. A man might appear to be in love with a woman but he is only in lust. You cannot win a battle if you are not thinking like your opponent. You must be aware on how your opponent thinks. You cannot assume that because a man appears crazy about you that mean he is really crazy. He is crazy aright but he is only crazy about what you have in your pants, I hope you are smart enough to know that. Sometime it is the woman’s big buttocks that attracted the man. Sometime it is her face, and still sometime it is her breasts. He is not in love but he is in lust. For some men it is a challenge, he has to prove to himself that he can get that woman, but after getting her he might just move on. Do not go fall in love until you know the man is in love. You better watch your heart Doctor Jones, do not make that man brake it. Elephants have known to died from broken heartedness. Set the relationship up so you can dump it if things is not going good. If you do not want a man any more let him go. He is not the only dick fish in the sea; there is bigger and better fish out there.
NEVER GET YOUR HOPES UP TOO QUICK AND TOO SOON.
You cannot name and claimed a man. Always try and find out what kind of relationship that man want. Most men only want a booty call relationship. That mean he just wants to be near so when the woman sex urges came he goes in a do a job on her and went his merry way singing as he go. Borrow tool relationship, mean the man belong to another woman. You are only using him and sent him back home, you do not own him. You already know he belonging to somebody else. Do not get yourself kill over a dick head. Marriage is the last thing on a man’s mind when he saw a woman, but marriage is the first thing on woman’s mind. Do not run away with your self. Bewaare of men who do stuff, beware of pimps like men.
OVER CONFIDENCY IS ONE OF THE MAIN THING THAT GET WOMEN IN TROUBLE WITH MEN.
Very few women can truly evaluate themselves. Even when she is the ugliest thing in town she still tell herself that she is the prettiest thing ever live this side of the Rio Grand. The lest attractive a woman are is the more credentials she need to give herself. I make sure my daughters graduate high school, and graduate university with their bachelors. This means a lot in the world of men.
DO NOT DO SEX AS A FAVOUR TO GET AND KEEP THE MAN.
If he made a commitment then it is your responsibility to take care of his needs in such case, but if he is not in a commitment with you. You do sex only if you want. So if he decide to cut and run, there is not need to bear a grudge, because you did not do it for him, but for you.
WHAT CAN YOU DO FOR HIM?
I heard women ask. What do I have to get? “All he want is sex”. What do you have to give him? He is there because he wants something I hope you know. Before you came to legal age you must already has a profession in place, just in case your parent say “Go get your own place” Young women like to do sex and bawl, you cannot bawl your sex bawling in your parent home. I hope you know.
CHOOSE MEN WITH SKILLS.
Can this man support a woman and family? It is ok for a man to have a good dick head, inside his pants but what about his head upon his two shoulders? Some of our black men cannot even keep their pants at their waist, them walking with their ass outside. I often wonder why the police refuse to arrest such person for nudity? If that is not prostitution I would want to know what it is. The man must have a trade, you must see him going to work or coming from work. I am talking about trade like Mechanic, tailor, carpenter, and plumbing on such like. Well if it is just dick a girl want you should not make him pregnant you. And if he pregnant you the man must get his child. The biological father must get the first choice to his child. Black American women refuses to give the Jamaican men their child. Never abort your baby, or give the baby away to others. Once you came to legal age never make parents, friends, church or pastor run your life.
QUALITIES YOU WILL NEED TO HAVE.
One of the first qualities you need to have is sense and common sense. You must have the sense to stay away from other women that suffer let down and has pocket and purse full of revenge to take upon men. A man just don’t get up and walk away from a woman that he pursued for months, and then just when he got her where he wanted her he got up and leave. We men are stupid but not so stupid. I had to walk pass my wife house, several months just to win her attentions, then go to her church to listen to preachers that I prefer not listen to, just to win her attention, then when I got her I just got up and walk away? Does that make sense? Women who are failures refuses to take their share of the blame, but they go on making the same mistakes over and over again.
Many black American women told me that they have problem with their Jamaican men. The prime reason is that they refuse to do a study and the men culture. If you are going to get sexually involve with a Rasta man, from Jamaica it is important to know that some Rasta Men have several wives, can you live with that? Some do not eat pig meat. Some do not eat meat at all. Some do not do oral sex or anal sex. You need to talk and ask questions and do not just assumed things. I mention oral sex and anal sex; I did not say which one you must choose. Do not read things into this article, which was not in it.
WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE SOBER MINDED?
Sober minded mean. One who understand the seriousness of life.
Titus 2:4 (KJV) That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, Titus 2:5 (KJV) To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.
Titus 2:4 (Living) These older women must train the younger women to live quietly, to love their husbands and their children, Titus 2:5 (Living) and to be sensible and clean minded, spending their time in their own homes, being kind and obedient to their husbands so that the Christian faith can't be spoken against by those who know them.
1 Tim. 3:11 (KJV) Even so must their wives be grave, not slanderers, sober, faithful in all things.
WHAT DOES THE HEAD MEAN?
1 Cor. 11:3 (KJV) But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.
The word “Christ being the Head of every man” “Head” Here mean, founder, architect, ruler, leader and king. If you look it up in the Greek. The man is the head of the woman, carries a different meaning. “Head” here mean, Umpire. An umpire is an official who enforces the rules of a game and settles disputes arising from the play. a person chosen to settle a dispute between contending parties. The umpire has emergency power, to give a ruling so the game can go on until the judges give a final ruling. The husband has emergency power to give a ruling when the family is dead lock on a decision. Until things able to sort themselves out. Or else the family could be bugged down for days over a decisions when need quick attention. Chose a man whom you rated that much to be your umpire. Most women choose stupid men on purpose, one that they can manipulate. Then her sisters and friend manipulate him also. Believe in the word of God.
Titus 2:6 (KJV) Young men likewise exhort to be sober minded. Titus 2:7 (KJV) In all things shewing thyself a pattern of good works: in doctrine shewing uncorruptness, gravity, sincerity,
Titus 2:6 (Living) In the same way, urge the young men to behave carefully, taking life seriously.
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Let us face the fact, no matter how much education we had on a subject we can go out there and made the worst mistakes of our life, that cause us dearly. Only Jesus Christ can help us with our decision-making.
Proverbs 3:6 in all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.
Psalm 34:8 (NASB-U) O taste and see that the Lord is good; How blessed is the man who takes refuge in Him!
HOW TO BECOME A CHRISTIAN.
Many people went to court each year and received a terrible sentences from the judge, and because they have no knowledge, they did not know that they could have ask the court for mercy or leniency, and end up knocking off a few years just by asking, it is the privilege of every citizen. Many people died and went to hell and never have the nerve to even ask God for mercy. Is there mercy for a hopeless sinner who has hurt all mankind? Yes!
Isaiah 7:11 (ASV) Ask thee a sign of Jehovah thy God; ask it either in the depth, or in the height above. Isaiah 7:12 (ASV) But Ahaz said, I will not ask, neither will I tempt Jehovah.
Ezekiel 18:32 (ASV) For I have no pleasure in the death of him that dieth, saith the Lord Jehovah: wherefore turn yourselves, and live.
First you must recognize that you are a sinner and need God mercy.
Romans 3:23 (KJV) For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; Then you must know that God sent his son Jesus to die for your sins.
1 Peter 2:24 (Living) He personally carried the load of our sins in his own body when he died on the cross so that we can be finished with sin and live a good life from now on. For his wounds have healed ours!
YOU MUST KNOW THAT YOU CANNOT SAVE YOURSELF.
Ephes. 2:8 (ASV) for by grace have ye been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God; Ephes. 2:9 (ASV) not of works, that no man should glory.
2 Peter 3:18 (ASV) But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. To him be the glory both now and for ever. Amen.
Zech. 4:7 (KJV) Who art thou, O great mountain? before Zerubbabel thou shalt become a plain: and he shall bring forth the headstone thereof with shoutings, crying, Grace, grace unto it.
Eph 2:8 The Message Bible” “Saving is all his idea, and all his work. All we do is trust him enough to let him do it. It's God's gift from start to finish! Eph 2:9 We don't play the major role. If we did, we'd probably go around bragging that we'd done the whole thing!” There nothing you could do to save yourself , the only thing you could do is bowed your head and ask God to save you.
You must believe that there is a God.
Hebrews 11:6 (Living) You can never please God without faith, without depending on him. Anyone who wants to come to God must believe that there is a God and that he rewards those who sincerely look for him.
No other person can save you except Jesus.
Acts 4:12 (KJV) Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
Acts 4:12 (Living) There is salvation in no one else! Under all heaven there is no other name for men to call upon to save them."
Then you must know that God invites you to come to him.
Isaiah 1:18 (Living) "Come, let's talk this over!" says the Lord; "no matter how deep the stain of your sins, I can take it out and make you as clean as freshly fallen snow. Even if you are stained as red as crimson, I can make you white as wool!
Do not wait until tomorrow to get save.
2Co 6:2 (For he saith, I have heard thee in a time accepted, and in the day of salvation have I succoured thee: behold, now is] the accepted time; behold, now {is] the day of salvation.)
2Co 6:2 The Message Bible. “God reminds us, I heard your call in the nick of time; The day you needed me, I was there to help. Well, now is the right time to listen, the day to be helped.”
Delay not your conversion to the lord, put it not off from day to day. Remember that tomorrow is promise to no man. Accept the lord, go home and continue with your life, if the lord.. If the lord saves you in bad life style, he has some plan up his sleeve how to get you out of it, give him time to work out his salvation in your life.
WHOSEOEVER SHALL CALL.
Acts 2:21 (KJV) And it shall come to pass, that whosoever shall call on the name of the Lord shall be saved.
Romans 10:13 (KJV) For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
Ezekiel 33:11 (KJV) Say unto them, As I live, saith the Lord God, I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked; but that the wicked turn from his way and live: turn ye, turn ye from your evil ways; for why will ye die, O house of Israel?
Now bow your head and pray this prayer.
Dear God, our heavenly father, I am a sinner and need to be save, would you save me this moment from all my sin? Save me now, because your son Jesus had died for my sin. Thank you for saving me and give me peace, in Jesus name.
From this day onward you will begin to feel a flood of joy and peace full your heart and mind. You must confess Jesus to others with your mouth. Tell what great thing the lord had done for you. Romans 10:9 (Living) For if you tell others with your own mouth that Jesus Christ is your Lord and believe in your own heart that God has raised him from the dead, you will be saved.
Then you need to start reading the bible, start reading from St Mathew.
1 Peter 2:2 (Living) Now that you realize how kind the Lord has been to you, put away all evil, deception, envy, and fraud. Long to grow up into the fullness of your salvation; cry for this as a baby cries for his milk. 1 Tim. 4:13 (KJV) Till I come, give attendance to reading, to exhortation, to doctrine.
THE LORD WILL MAKE YOU HOLY IN HIS OWN TIME.
1 Peter 5:10 (KJV) But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, stablish, strengthen, settle you.
OUR BODY WAS NOT REEDEM AT CONVERSION.
Romans 8:23 (GW) However, not only creation groans. We, who have the Spirit as the first of God's gifts, also groan inwardly. We groan as we eagerly wait for our adoption, the freeing of our bodies {from sin}.
Rom 8:21 that the creation itself also shall be delivered from the bondage of corruption into the liberty of the glory of the children of God. Rom 8:22 For we know that the whole creation groaneth and travaileth in pain together until now. Rom 8:23 And not only so, but ourselves also, who have the first-fruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for our adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.
THE SINS OF THE BODY WILL NOT BE CONQUERED LITERALY BY ALL SAINTS WHILE LIVING ON EARTH.
2 Cor. 5:10 (NASB-U) For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each one may be recompensed for his deeds in the body, according to what he has done, whether good or bad.
When the Lord redeemed us our body was not redeem, it was our spirit and soul. The changes took place in our spirit man. Not the body. The body will still continue to sin. If the believer do not know this they will become worried as to why am I still lusting? And became eaten up with guilt to the point where they experience no peace and joy.
Even though our body were not redeem, we who wanting to live up to certain standard, to please society, must bring our body into subjection, even thou we do not do that to buy salvation. But to prevent Satan from capitalized on it. But to bring this body into subjection take time. We saw belivers at the judgment seat of Christ in heaven being judge for the deeds of the body.
1 Cor. 9:27 (NASB-U)but I discipline my body and make it my slave, so that, after I have preached to others, I myself will not be disqualified.
2 Cor. 2:11 (NASB-U) so that no advantage would be taken of us by Satan, for we are not ignorant of his schemes.
Romans 12:1 (GW)Brothers and sisters, in view of all we have just shared about God's compassion, I encourage you to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, dedicated to God and pleasing to him. This kind of worship is appropriate for you.
2 Cor. 12:7 (NASB-U)Because of the surpassing greatness of the revelations, for this reason, to keep me from exalting myself, there was given me a thorn in the flesh, a messenger of Satan to torment me—to keep me from exalting myself!
SOME THING YOU OVERCAME IT BY IMPUTED GRACE.
2 Cor. 12:8 (NASB-U)Concerning this I implored the Lord three times that it might leave me. 2 Cor. 12:9 (NASB-U) And He has said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness." Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me.
“I saw a river of blood, flows from Calvary Mountain, I am in it and your are in it, and I am clean, clean” By Smith Wiggle worth.
We can sing with the song writer" I rise walk in heaven’s own light above the world and sin with heart made pure and garments white, and Christ en-throned with in. The cleansing stream I see I see I plunge, and O It cleans-eth me. O praise the Lord, it cleans-eth me, it cleans-eth me yes, cleans-eth me."
HOW TO CONTINUE IN THE FAITH.
Hosea 6:3 Then shall we know, if we follow on to know the Lord: his going forth is prepared as the morning; and he shall come unto us as the rain, as the latter and former rain unto the earth.
The first thing you will need to know is this. Beware of people who come laying hands on you say they are filling you with the Holy Ghost. That is how people get possess with demonic spirits. God will give you every thing you need to fit you out for his service in his own times. You do not need to push any thing nor to make any thing happen. Wait until God make it happen.
A NEW MIND-SET.
After the lord save a person there are some things that the person must do on their own. All the work is not just up to Jesus. You must developed a different mind set, from the one you have before you were converted. Not a holier that thou mind set but a new mind.
Eph 4:22 That ye put off concerning the former conversation the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts; Eph 4:23 And be renewed in the spirit of your mind; Eph 4:24 And that ye put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness. Eph 4:25 Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbour: for we are members one of another.
GIVE YOURSELF AWAY TO THE THINGS OF GOD.
1Ti 4:13 Till I come, give attendance to reading, to exhortation, to doctrine. 1Ti 4:14 Neglect not the gift that is in thee, which was given thee by prophecy, with the laying on of the hands of the presbytery. 1Ti 4:15 Meditate upon these things; give thyself wholly to them; that thy profiting may appear to all. 1Ti 4:16 Take heed unto thyself, and unto the doctrine; continue in them: for in doing this thou shalt both save thyself, and them that hear thee.
Jer 29:13 The Message Bible. "When you come looking for me, you'll find me. "Yes, when you get serious about finding me and want it more than anything else,
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The author of this article.
Rev. James McBean. Sr
Was born in Jamaica west Indies.
Bachelor In Theology.
Masters in Christians counseling.
Member of the AACC. American Association of Christians councilors
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