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WHAT BROKE UP MARRIAGE?

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Copyright C 1998 by J.A.Mcbean. Library of Congress Washington.D.C.20559

T o prevent a thing from broken you will first need to know under what conditions is it breakable. The outcome of a war is not decide the day of the battle, the defeated country was defeated from the time they allow the spies to come in.

Luke 14:28-35 (KJV) For which of you, intending to build a tower, sitteth not down first, and counteth the cost, whether he have sufficient to finish it? [29] Lest haply, after he hath laid the foundation, and is not able to finish it, all that behold it begin to mock him, [30] Saying, This man began to build, and was not able to finish. [31] Or what king, going to make war against another king, sitteth not down first, and consulteth whether he be able with ten thousand to meet him that cometh against him with twenty thousand? [32] Or else, while the other is yet a great way off, he sendeth an ambassage, and desireth conditions of peace. [33] So likewise, whosoever he be of you that forsaketh not all that he hath, he cannot be my disciple. [34] Salt is good: but if the salt have lost his savour, wherewith shall it be seasoned? [35] It is neither fit for the land, nor yet for the dunghill; but men cast it out. He that hath ears to hear, let him hear.

The spies provide the commandoes with the best information as to where the weak spots are. Without the spies the commando’s efforts will be useless. If a country cannot catch spies you cannot truly win a war.

It is the same things with marriages. The faith of the marriage was determined long before the engagement.

(1) THE COUPLE DID NOT CONSIDER THE TROUBLES A HEAD.

Every explorer first sit down and consider the dangers of the trip. Marriage is putting two people together who has different upbringing, different experience, eat different food, have different perspective and sometime only like each other on the physical level. If readers will permit me to be honest, nine out of ten women that I like, it was just the shape of the body, that I like, and because experience told me that, with that shape she might have a gold mine there, of a vagina.

Most of the time after getting to know her I do not want any thing she got, not even her so call gold mine. Putting two people together is sometime dangerous business; we set them up to kill each other. Marriage is not all about sex, however, most men that is all we see. We cannot wait to take her home to plow her down, and she cannot wait to get us home to cut our throat.

(2) GULLIBILITY OF SPOUSES.

gul·li·ble . easily deceived or duped. Gullibility is one of the ingredient that broken up marriage, and this did not came about since the people got marriage, they were like this since childhood. People who believe every thing they hear, without questioning it. Fall prey to hear says. A certain lady from one of our church was getting marriage, another lady who also love the man was upset that this girl get the man. She told the girl that the man has no penis. One day before the marriage, the girl calls the marriage off base on what the other lady told her, If was a woman and hear that about my intended husband I would told him and ask him to show me his weapons. I am not going to just fall prey to hear says. It is highly disrespectful to talk about your spouse with other people behind his or her back. When you do this people see you as divided and week. One woman told my wife to put me out of the house, then the same woman came and told me that she had a room to rent me in her house. A gullible person is seeing as a fool.

(3) POWER STRUGGLE.

Choose a man that you respect to be your head. By doing this, there will be no need for a power struggle, because the same thing you want is what he wants. Power struggle will only slow down the progress of the marriage, and eventually cause it to end in tragedy.

A man before getting married to a woman, must first find out if she understand and believe in the delegated authority of a man in the home. You do not want to go in there lest than a man.

Ephes. 5:23 (KJV) For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.

Amos 3:3 (KJV) Can two walk together, except they be agreed?

2 Cor. 6:14-17 (KJV) Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? [15] And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel? [16] And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people. [17] Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you,

(10) SEXUAL PREFERENCES.

In the world of business is not what you disserve you get; it is what you negotiate for. One of my lady friend marriages broke up because the kind of sex that her husband want is not what she thing she was going to get. She was a virgin when he married her. Had she talk about the man’s sexual preference before marriage she would have known what she was getting into.

Gone are the days when we can marry without first discussing the sexual preferences of people. The days of the missionary sex and straight sex is long gone. Today we have bondage sex, anal sex, oral sex, and there is a new one came on recently. The person is being tied up and beaten.

(5) UNSATISFIED SEX LIFE.

1 Cor. 7:1-5 (KJV) Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. [2] Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. [3] Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. [4] The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. [5] Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.

(15) INTERFERENCES OF FAMILIES AND FRIENDS.

Family and friends broke up a lot of marriages yearly. Before you both move in together you both have to decide on what role family and friend are going to play in the new relationship. You both will have to set boundary, you might even have to move away. Certain in laws Always wait until they know that my wife and I was about to retire to bed they call with a sad story and spoiled the mood. From I heard the phone ring, and my wife shout out” What?” I say, “ Yes!! It is over for tonight” One person cannot set boundary. The husband must set boundary for his family and the wife must set boundary for her side of family, and this boundary must be put in place before the marriage.

Genesis 2:24 (KJV) Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

Mark 10:7 (KJV) For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife;

Ephes. 5:31 (KJV) For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.

(7) MONEY TROUBLE.

Money trouble is one hell of a problem today, when the money stop rolling it is head that roles.

(8) CONTROLLING SPIRITS.

A man before getting married to a woman, must first find out if she understand and believe in the delegated authority of a man in the home. You do not want to go in there lest than a man.

There are some people with controlling spirit, controlling spirit spring from insecurity and cowardice. You will need to deal with this before the marriage, by letting the person know that when you goes to the library you do not wishes to came home and relate where you were, and what book you were reading at the library. You will need to let your intended spouse know that you do not intended to go up that road. Physical abuses spring from a controlling spirit. You need to let the person know from day one that the hitting and loud voice stuff will not work not even once with you. You will have to stand up to people with controlling spirit. Now a husband have a certain amount of say, he is the delegated authority in the home. However, he has no right to govern you movement. And the wife has no right to govern his.

(9) DENIED EACH OTHER’S OF THEIR RIGHTS TO RETAIN THEIR INDIVIDUALITY.

You have the rights to retain your individuality as a person. The kind of clothing you wishes to wear this day should be your choices. This is a woman’s problem. One man stop going to church because every Sunday morning he and his wife argue over what clothing he must wear. You have to deal with this problem before marriage.

(17) LIFE HAVING NO SPIRITUAL BASE.

Humanity greatest problems are to try to live our lives without a God that made us. Nothing ever goes good without God at the head.

Job 33:15-18 (KJV) In a dream, in a vision of the night, when deep sleep falleth upon men, in slumberings upon the bed; [16] Then he openeth the ears of men, and sealeth their instruction, [17] That he may withdraw man from his purpose, and hide pride from man. [18] He keepeth back his soul from the pit, and his life from perishing by the sword.

Matthew 7:12 (KJV) Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets.

It is impossible to live in peace with people whose life having no spiritual base. You have to understand human nature, people punches back, in their own ways. The person must have a spiritual base, they must have something to correct them.

(18) GETTING INVOLVED WITH P PEOPLE WHO’S HEARTS GOD CANNOT TOUCH.

1 Samuel 10:26 (KJV) And Saul also went home to Gibeah; and there went with him a band of men, whose hearts God had touched.

1 Samuel 24:4-5 (KJV) And the men of David said unto him, Behold the day of which the Lord said unto thee, Behold, I will deliver thine enemy into thine hand, that thou mayest do to him as it shall seem good unto thee. Then David arose, and cut off the skirt of Saul's robe privily. [5] And it came to pass afterward, that David's heart smote him, because he had cut off Saul's skirt.

Job 4:13-19 (KJV) In thoughts from the visions of the night, when deep sleep falleth on men, [14] Fear came upon me, and trembling, which made all my bones to shake. [15] Then a spirit passed before my face; the hair of my flesh stood up: [16] It stood still, but I could not discern the form thereof: an image was before mine eyes, there was silence, and I heard a voice, saying, [17] Shall mortal man be more just than God? shall a man be more pure than his maker? [18] Behold, he put no trust in his servants; and his angels he charged with folly: [19] How much less in them that dwell in houses of clay, whose foundation is in the dust, which are crushed before the moth?

(19) MARRIED TO SICK SPOUSES.

If a person is sick, let them get their health restored before marriage. If a person has mental trouble, hurt from child hood, hurt from previous relationship. Let them go get help before marriage, do not sorry for any thing and get married to sick stuff. Later on in life they blame you for making them sick, and forgotten that you get them sick. Christians had a habit of doing some of the most foolish thing and say it was the Holy Spirit tells them to do it. Do you ever see anybody buy sick goat? Even dogs had to get their shots and check up before sold. Do not get yourself lack up in toilet then blame Jesus. People had a way to run come to church after they burnt themselves out in Satan motel. They came to pick out the strongest bull and cannot even lift up the tail.

Proverbs 10:22 (KJV) The blessing of the Lord, it maketh rich, and he addeth no sorrow with it.

You do not want to get married to somebody that are sick, physically, physiologically or having a bad police record. One young girl married to this man, her mother was so glad, because the man is clear skinned black man, and this mean something where some black people are concern. The man gave her AIDS. You will need to see medical record. You will need to see police record. But he/she is in the church and is change now! God say” My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge. How you know he she is not faking the church thing? Relative raped some women; you are supposed to know, so you can take that into consideration when dealing with he/she.

Psalm 41:4 (KJV) I said, Lord, be merciful unto me: heal me on the inside; for I have sinned against thee.

Proverbs 18:14 (KJV) The spirit of a man will sustain his infirmity; but a wounded spirit who can bear?

Psalm 41:4 a [be merciful unto me: heal my soul] Four requests of David: 1. Be merciful unto me (Psalm 41:4). 2. Heal my soul of sin. 3. Be merciful unto me (Psalm 41:10). 4. Raise me up. b [heal my soul] Soul healing is mentioned only once while physical healing is mentioned hundreds of times in Scripture.

“Seek heeling if you are sick” Ten Kinds of Healing in Scripture

1. Physical healing (Exodus 15:26; Psalm 103:3; Matthew 10:1-8; § James 5:14-16, notes) 2. Soul healing (Psalm 41:4) 3. Healing of land (2 Chron. 7:14) 4. Backslidings (Jeremiah 3:22; Hosea 14:4) 5. Broken hearts (Psalm 147:3; Luke 4:18) 6. Water (Exodus 15:25; 2 Kings 2:21-22; Ezekiel 47:8-11) 7. Hurt (Jeremiah 6:14; Jeremiah 8:11; Nahum 3:19) 8. Empires (Jeremiah 51:8-9; Rev. 13:3,12) 9. National healing (Isaiah 30:26) 10. Healing of nations-preservation of life (Rev. 22:2)

SEX AGE COMPATIBILITY.

Abraham was ten year older than his wife. Women sex drives tend to diminish, as they get older, more than that of a man. As a child of God, I want to assume that you do not want any old stuff. You do not want any thing that are going to give you sex problem a few week up a head. The Christians Church will never respect you if they catch you and I in any bad life, especially where sex are concern. Some people came to the church and pick up a young stud then asking him to understand, the human sex drive have no understanding. One man know he was impotent and came to one of our church and pick out the strongest black woman in the church, twenty eight years old. She divorces him. She throws him out like a rotten plum.

Genesis 17:17 (KJV) Then Abraham fell upon his face, and laughed, and said in his heart, Shall a child be born unto him that is an hundred years old? and shall Sarah, that is ninety years old, bear?

A thirty years old man should seek for a woman that is of the youngest legal marriageable age. Age make a different. If it is marriage you are dealing with, then get parental consent, and catch her before she hit the road. With parental consent you could marry her from seventeen year old. The Indians married even younger.

This is a warfare we are call into, and you have to do every thing that you can do right, it is important to know that you have to start out with head faith. Before the spiritual faith kicks in.

Isaiah 5:13 (KJV) Therefore my people are gone into captivity, because they have no knowledge: and their honourable men are famished, and their multitude dried up with thirst.

Hosea 4:6 (KJV) My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee, that thou shalt be no priest to me: seeing thou hast forgotten the law of thy God, I will also forget thy children.

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