How To Avoid Falling Prey To A Man Who Mislead Women
By Dr. James. A McBean D.Th., MCC
Copyright © 2008 Library of Congress
Washington.D.C.20559
T he quickest way to protect one self against people is to first finds out their self- interest. A fisherman will never be able to catch a fish if he neglects the fish self-interest. He must think about what bait is enticing to the fish he is trying to catch. He cannot ignore the fish need.
A husband will never be able to keep his wife, or the wife will never be able to keep her husband if they both neglect this rule. Even a con-man is going by this rule. This is the rule that all winners play by.
IF YOU KNOW PEOPLE SELF- INTEREST AS THEY APPROACH YOU, YOU CAN AVOID THEM, HELP THEM, OR USES THEM.
People came to get. Now what does this person want? One man came to a woman to get companionship. Another group came to relieve her of her money. Another group came because they are captivated by her body and want to get with her. Whatsoever a person came to achieve, that is, his or her self-interest. The men that came to relieve the woman of her money are always the most successful ones. This one can drop flowers behind and before her. He showered her with cheep attentions, because this group of men has the time for that. Do not get me wrong, the flower dropping men also have their importance, they make women feel good about themselves, and feeling good is important.
If you cannot help people self-interest, they will immediately depart from you. One of my friends says. “A certain lady acts like she has no need for a man, but she keeps calling him.” This trick is not good. A mutual self-interest must be reveals, so a compromise can be establish. Acting like you have no need of people will only cause them to be acting like they do not need you either.
NEVER MORTGAGE YOUR HOUSE TO LEND THE MONEY TO A MAN.
Never mortgage your house to lend the money to a man. One woman told me that the man took all her money and never returns. I Ask her why she hand over so much money. She says he usually goes down on her. Whatsoever that supposes to mean. It does not matter how far down he decides to go. Even if he is going to come out in China. You cannot empty your bank account, wasting your resource on people only because they decide to go down.
Now! How much money should a woman give to a man? Money that she does not need to cry about, nor loose her night sleeps over. Money that she does not need to bear grudges over. If the giving is going to hurt, you do not give it.
SOMETIME ONLY JESUS CAN HELP US
Acts 4:12 (KJV)Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. Romans 5:7 (KJV) For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. Romans 5:8 (KJV) But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:9 (KJV) Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him. Romans 5:10 (KJV) For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life. Romans 5:11 (KJV) And not only so, but we also joy in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom we have now received the atonement.
Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
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